A collection of things that either make me smile or make me... uh well you can probably guess.

10th May 2013

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Build up - BDSM - Literotica.com →

Chastity play precipitates an explosive evening in my second story to be posted on Literotica.

Keep track of my erotic fiction by checking my erotic fiction page on  at Submissive in Seattle

10th May 2013

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fdmarriage:

Defloration in the wedding night.

Getting sodomized in the bridal suite on my honeymoon might just be my biggest ever fantasy.

fdmarriage:

Defloration in the wedding night.

Getting sodomized in the bridal suite on my honeymoon might just be my biggest ever fantasy.

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10th May 2013

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Jiz lee, just does it for me.
 Plus I get the sense that they would be cool to hang out with.

Jiz lee, just does it for me.

Plus I get the sense that they would be cool to hang out with.

10th May 2013

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I like this because the sub looks like me. Well, not really, but his appearance fits into my mental box of “guys like me” if that makes sense.
I often find it difficult to project myself onto the subs in porn, which is one of the reasons I tend to read erotica more often than I watch pronography. 

I like this because the sub looks like me. Well, not really, but his appearance fits into my mental box of “guys like me” if that makes sense.

I often find it difficult to project myself onto the subs in porn, which is one of the reasons I tend to read erotica more often than I watch pronography. 

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10th May 2013

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I want this! I promise to sit still for as long as it takes.

I want this! I promise to sit still for as long as it takes.

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10th May 2013

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10th May 2013

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Collar’d MeI’m way behind on posting about this, but I’ve been exhausted this week and couldn’t quite bring…View Post

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I’m way behind on posting about this, but I’ve been exhausted this week and couldn’t quite bring…

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Tagged: collaringcollarsD/sd/s datingshort postTavi

8th May 2013

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mistresslilyana:

geekdomme:

deviantdominantdesires:

girlsrule-subsdrool:

I was in the middle of texts regarding my new cock with brand new local pet I’ve only played with once.
This came up and I have so many things I want to say about why that sentiment (“the challenge of not saying it”) is not good.
I’m also going to go find that post on safewords from a few days ago.
But! I’d like to hear others’ opinions too. I’m not very eloquent and would like to be eloquent.

That statement would bother me too, because it implies that your pet thinks that to use it would be a failure or weakness on their part, when in fact it demonstrates SSC and self awareness. Further, it suggests that your pet feels that they need to go further, to be pushed, in a way that isn’t healthy, or submissive, especially as this is a new relationship. It takes away your control and is almost like you are being provoked or dared, to go further. I’d watch out for topping from the bottom with this one.

Exactly.

I think you’re overreacting. I’d make sure he really, truly understands what a safe word is and then chalk up his statement to the competitive male psyche. I’m betting he just wants to be the best sub he can be and that’s how he chose to articulate that sentiment in that moment.

I concur with Mistresslilyana. I’d have a discussion with him to make sure he isn’t going to try and push himself too far.
For me, when I bottom there are times where I ride the line, where I want the pain to stop, and I know I could make it stop, but I don’t want to end the play. I’ve called out yellow, once or twice for that reason.
Part of me does regard it as a challenge to take whatever Tavi dishes out, but I’m not going to push myself too far to meet that challenge.
She has gotten quite good at reading me at this point as well and has brought play to a close when she sensed I might be getting close to safewording.
So, I’d check in on this potential pet’s mindset, but It could very well be that he knows he will feel tempted to take an easy out and wants to challenge his willpower.

mistresslilyana:

geekdomme:

deviantdominantdesires:

girlsrule-subsdrool:

I was in the middle of texts regarding my new cock with brand new local pet I’ve only played with once.

This came up and I have so many things I want to say about why that sentiment (“the challenge of not saying it”) is not good.

I’m also going to go find that post on safewords from a few days ago.

But! I’d like to hear others’ opinions too. I’m not very eloquent and would like to be eloquent.

That statement would bother me too, because it implies that your pet thinks that to use it would be a failure or weakness on their part, when in fact it demonstrates SSC and self awareness. Further, it suggests that your pet feels that they need to go further, to be pushed, in a way that isn’t healthy, or submissive, especially as this is a new relationship. It takes away your control and is almost like you are being provoked or dared, to go further. I’d watch out for topping from the bottom with this one.

Exactly.

I think you’re overreacting. I’d make sure he really, truly understands what a safe word is and then chalk up his statement to the competitive male psyche. I’m betting he just wants to be the best sub he can be and that’s how he chose to articulate that sentiment in that moment.

I concur with Mistresslilyana. I’d have a discussion with him to make sure he isn’t going to try and push himself too far.

For me, when I bottom there are times where I ride the line, where I want the pain to stop, and I know I could make it stop, but I don’t want to end the play. I’ve called out yellow, once or twice for that reason.

Part of me does regard it as a challenge to take whatever Tavi dishes out, but I’m not going to push myself too far to meet that challenge.

She has gotten quite good at reading me at this point as well and has brought play to a close when she sensed I might be getting close to safewording.

So, I’d check in on this potential pet’s mindset, but It could very well be that he knows he will feel tempted to take an easy out and wants to challenge his willpower.

Source: girlsrule-subsdrool

5th May 2013

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Where did my nipple clamps go?

sugarspicekinkynice:

Seriously, they aren’t in my toy cabinet :/

Have you checked your nipples?

3rd May 2013

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I’m not into scatBetween here and reddit, I’ve been asked a few times for advice on how to go about looking for a…View Post

I’m not into scat

Between here and reddit, I’ve been asked a few times for advice on how to go about looking for a…

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