Kinks and Giggles

CatharsisIt’s been a rough couple of weeks for me. Work has been...

Tue, 21 May 2013 00:00:23 -0700

Catharsis

It’s been a rough couple of weeks for me. Work has been a stressful and my schedule has left me…

View Post

e[lust] #46Photo courtesy of A Penny for Your Dirty...

Thu, 16 May 2013 14:52:14 -0700

e[lust] #46

Photo courtesy of A Penny for Your Dirty Thoughts

Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the…

View Post

Anal Toy Story

Wed, 15 May 2013 20:50:55 -0700

Anal Toy Story:

In which I blather about my new butt toys

I could go for this right now, but I doubt she’d be so...

Sun, 12 May 2013 18:35:41 -0700

I could go for this right now, but I doubt she’d be so gentle.

“I’m sworn to carry your burdens”

Sun, 12 May 2013 18:34:50 -0700

“I’m sworn to carry your burdens”

Got rhythm?

Sun, 12 May 2013 18:34:14 -0700

Got rhythm?

There is something I’ve always liked about this picture,...

Sun, 12 May 2013 18:33:44 -0700

There is something I’ve always liked about this picture, but I can’t quite put my finger on it.

Build up - BDSM - Literotica.com

Fri, 10 May 2013 21:44:39 -0700

Build up - BDSM - Literotica.com:

Chastity play precipitates an explosive evening in my second story to be posted on Literotica.

Keep track of my erotic fiction by checking my erotic fiction page on at Submissive in Seattle

fdmarriage: Defloration in the wedding night. Getting...

Fri, 10 May 2013 20:16:59 -0700

fdmarriage:

Defloration in the wedding night.

Getting sodomized in the bridal suite on my honeymoon might just be my biggest ever fantasy.

Jiz lee, just does it for me. Plus I get the sense that they...

Fri, 10 May 2013 20:15:54 -0700

Jiz lee, just does it for me.

Plus I get the sense that they would be cool to hang out with.

I like this because the sub looks like me. Well, not really, but...

Fri, 10 May 2013 20:13:02 -0700

I like this because the sub looks like me. Well, not really, but his appearance fits into my mental box of “guys like me” if that makes sense.

I often find it difficult to project myself onto the subs in porn, which is one of the reasons I tend to read erotica more often than I watch pronography.

I want this! I promise to sit still for as long as it takes.

Fri, 10 May 2013 20:06:43 -0700

I want this! I promise to sit still for as long as it takes.

Photo

Fri, 10 May 2013 20:01:43 -0700

Collar’d MeI’m way behind on posting about this, but I’ve...

Fri, 10 May 2013 19:46:40 -0700

Collar’d Me

I’m way behind on posting about this, but I’ve been exhausted this week and couldn’t quite bring…

View Post

mistresslilyana: geekdomme: deviantdominantdesires: girlsrule-...

Wed, 08 May 2013 09:18:39 -0700

mistresslilyana:

geekdomme:

deviantdominantdesires:

girlsrule-subsdrool:

I was in the middle of texts regarding my new cock with brand new local pet I’ve only played with once.

This came up and I have so many things I want to say about why that sentiment (“the challenge of not saying it”) is not good.

I’m also going to go find that post on safewords from a few days ago.

But! I’d like to hear others’ opinions too. I’m not very eloquent and would like to be eloquent.

That statement would bother me too, because it implies that your pet thinks that to use it would be a failure or weakness on their part, when in fact it demonstrates SSC and self awareness. Further, it suggests that your pet feels that they need to go further, to be pushed, in a way that isn’t healthy, or submissive, especially as this is a new relationship. It takes away your control and is almost like you are being provoked or dared, to go further. I’d watch out for topping from the bottom with this one.

Exactly.

I think you’re overreacting. I’d make sure he really, truly understands what a safe word is and then chalk up his statement to the competitive male psyche. I’m betting he just wants to be the best sub he can be and that’s how he chose to articulate that sentiment in that moment.

I concur with Mistresslilyana. I’d have a discussion with him to make sure he isn’t going to try and push himself too far.

For me, when I bottom there are times where I ride the line, where I want the pain to stop, and I know I could make it stop, but I don’t want to end the play. I’ve called out yellow, once or twice for that reason.

Part of me does regard it as a challenge to take whatever Tavi dishes out, but I’m not going to push myself too far to meet that challenge.

She has gotten quite good at reading me at this point as well and has brought play to a close when she sensed I might be getting close to safewording.

So, I’d check in on this potential pet’s mindset, but It could very well be that he knows he will feel tempted to take an easy out and wants to challenge his willpower.

Where did my nipple clamps go?

Sun, 05 May 2013 20:57:52 -0700

sugarspicekinkynice:

Seriously, they aren’t in my toy cabinet :/

Have you checked your nipples?

I’m not into scatBetween here and reddit, I’ve been asked...

Fri, 03 May 2013 17:30:07 -0700

I’m not into scat

Between here and reddit, I’ve been asked a few times for advice on how to go about looking for a…

View Post

A boy asked, "What's your favorite discipline?"

Wed, 01 May 2013 21:15:13 -0700

girlsrule-subsdrool:

geekdomme:

And I answered it this way:

Chemistry is my favorite science discipline.

I don’t use “discipline” in a D/s relationship to modify behavior. My disappointment should be enough of a motivator to do as I’ve asked.

(Now rebloggable by request!)

She summed up in one sentence all the reasons why I do NOT identify as a disciplinarian.

Seriously!

If I have fucked up enough that she feels I need to be punished for it, I’m already feeling worse than she is going to be able to make me feel with punishment.

Achievement UnlockedThere is a bit of a void in my life right...

Wed, 01 May 2013 12:16:12 -0700

Achievement Unlocked

There is a bit of a void in my life right now when it comes to male companionship. After living…

View Post

I my mind, her look of surprise is because he just got all the...

Wed, 01 May 2013 12:08:58 -0700

I my mind, her look of surprise is because he just got all the way down on her massive strap-on.